No one aspires to do IVF; at least no one I've come across in all my years of fertility treatments. It's expensive, painful (emotionally and physically), and down right draining.
Those of us that are facing IVF, whether for the first time or like me, a third time, always hope for that one little miracle. That surprise pregnancy that means IVF isn't needed. We've all heard of those people; the ones that tried and tried for years and years, only to stop or take a break and suddenly find themselves pregnant. I've known a few of these people in my life and of course wished to be one of them.
Given that both my husband and I have fertility issues, I'm fully aware that the odds are very much against me. To be one of these people, I have one more shot at it. One more cycle before it all begins again. One last chance for Mother Nature to cooperate.